Why do we say "please" and "thank you"?
2024-11-20
Once upon a time, in a land filled with sparkling rivers and lollipop trees, lived a little bunny. This bunny, we'll call him Pip, loved to play. He loved to hop through the tall grass, chase butterflies with shimmering wings, and build magnificent sandcastles by the babbling brook. But Pip had a little problem. He sometimes forgot to say "please" and "thank you."
One sunny morning, Pip was playing near the lollipop tree. The tree was laden with the most delicious-looking lollipops, swirling with rainbow colours. Pip spotted a particularly shiny, grape-flavored lollipop. He really, really wanted it! He reached out his tiny paws and grabbed it.
A friendly voice said, "Oh, that's my lollipop!"
Pip looked up. It was a wise old creature, with fur as soft as a cloud and eyes as bright as the morning sun. The creature was tending the lollipop tree, carefully watering it and making sure all the lollipops were perfectly ripe.
Pip, feeling a little embarrassed, mumbled, "Uh... I… wanted it."
The wise old creature smiled gently. "It's perfectly alright to want something, Pip. But there’s a magical way to ask for things that makes everyone feel happy and makes getting what you want much easier."
Pip tilted his head, his nose twitching curiously. "A magical way?"
"Yes," the wise old creature chuckled. "It's the magic words: 'Please' and 'Thank you'."
The wise old creature then told Pip a story. "Imagine a land filled with singing flowers and giggling mushrooms. In this land, everyone understood the magic of 'please' and 'thank you'. When someone wanted something, they'd say, 'Please, may I have a singing flower?' And when they received it, they’d say, 'Thank you so much!'"
"But what happens if you don't say 'please'?" Pip asked, his eyes wide with wonder.
"Well," the wise old creature explained, "if you don’t say 'please', it’s like sending a message saying, 'I want this, and I don't care if you want to give it to me or not.' It can make the other creature feel a little sad, like their feelings aren't important. Sometimes, they might not want to give you what you want, even if they have plenty to share."
Pip thought about this. He understood that making others feel good was important.
"And what about 'thank you'?" Pip asked.
"Saying 'thank you' shows that you appreciate the kindness and generosity of the other creature," the wise old creature replied. "It's like sending a little burst of happiness back to them, making them feel good about sharing with you. It's a way of showing that you value their gift, whether it's a lollipop, a hug, or even just a kind word."
The wise old creature then showed Pip how it worked. "For example, if you wanted this lollipop, you should say, 'Please, may I have this delicious-looking grape lollipop?'"
Pip practiced. "Please, may I have this delicious-looking grape lollipop?"
The wise old creature beamed. "Certainly! It's a pleasure to share." The creature handed Pip the lollipop. Pip took a big lick and his eyes lit up.
"Thank you so much!" Pip exclaimed, feeling a warm glow inside.
The wise old creature smiled. "You're welcome, Pip. See? Using 'please' and 'thank you' makes everyone feel happy and special."
The wise old creature continued, "Imagine you're playing with your friends and you want to borrow a toy. Saying 'Please, may I borrow your toy?' shows respect and makes them feel good about letting you play with it. When you're done, saying 'Thank you for letting me borrow your toy!' shows that you appreciate their kindness."
Pip thought about all the times he hadn’t used his magic words. He remembered grabbing toys from his friends without asking, and forgetting to thank his parents for delicious meals. He felt a little ashamed.
"I understand," Pip said softly. "Saying 'please' and 'thank you' makes everyone happy."
The wise old creature nodded. "It's like sprinkling magic dust on your interactions. It makes everything better!"
From that day on, Pip always remembered to say "please" and "thank you." He learned that these weren't just words; they were magical keys that unlocked kindness, friendship, and happiness. He discovered that using these magic words brought him even more joy than the sweetest lollipop. He made new friends, strengthened old bonds, and his days were filled with the sweet taste of appreciation and the happy feeling of knowing he was spreading joy wherever he went. And that, Pip learned, was the sweetest magic of all.