Why do we feel relieved?
2024-11-20
Once upon a time, in a land filled with bouncy mushrooms and giggling flowers, lived a little fluffy creature. This creature loved to explore! Every day was an adventure. One day, our little explorer decided to climb the tallest, wobbly mushroom in the whole land. It was so high! The wind whistled past its fluffy top, and the creature felt a tiny bit scared. His little heart thump-thump-thumped like a tiny drum. He gripped the mushroom stem tightly with his little paws.
He climbed and climbed, higher and higher. The view from the top was amazing! He could see the sparkling river snaking through the valley, the colorful houses nestled among the flowers, and even the faraway mountains looking like sleeping giants. But the higher he climbed, the more wobbly the mushroom felt. His tummy felt like it was doing somersaults, and his paws were getting sweaty. He felt a tight, squeezing feeling in his chest – that’s what we call feeling anxious. It felt a little bit like a big, bouncy ball was trapped inside him, making it hard to breathe.
He reached the very top! Wow! What a view! But the wobbly mushroom made him feel even more anxious. He wanted to go down, but he was scared of falling. He felt a mix of excitement from the view and fear of the height. This made the bouncy ball inside him even bigger!
Just then, a wise old creature with twinkling eyes appeared. "Little one," the wise creature said gently, "you look a bit… tense. What’s wrong?"
Our little explorer explained about his climb, about the wobbly mushroom, and about the scary feeling in his chest. The wise creature smiled. "That’s anxiety, my little friend. It’s a feeling we all get sometimes when we face something new or challenging. It tells us we need to be careful and pay attention."
The wise creature then showed the little explorer a beautiful, smooth, round stone. "See this stone?" the wise creature asked. "It feels smooth and calm, doesn't it? Anxiety is like a rough, bumpy stone. It can feel uncomfortable and make you feel uneasy. But just like we can smooth a rough stone with water and time, we can smooth away the anxiety."
"How?" asked the little explorer, his eyes wide with curiosity.
"There are many ways," the wise creature replied. "One way is to take slow, deep breaths, just like this." The wise creature showed the little explorer how to breathe in slowly through the nose, filling his tummy like a balloon, and then breathe out slowly through the mouth, letting the air escape like a gentle whisper. The little explorer copied, and the bouncy ball inside him started to shrink a little.
"Another way is to think about happy things," the wise creature continued. "Remember that time you played in the sunbeams and giggled with the flowers? Remember how much fun you had splashing in the river? Focusing on happy memories helps to replace the bumpy stone with smooth, happy feelings."
The little explorer closed his eyes and thought about playing with the flowers, the way their petals tickled his nose, the joyful splashes in the river, the feeling of sunshine warming his fur. He felt the bouncy ball inside him shrinking even more.
Finally, the wise creature suggested another way: "Sometimes, talking about what makes you anxious can help. You've already told me, and talking about it has already made you feel better. Sharing your feelings is like sharing the weight of that bumpy stone; it makes it feel lighter."
The little explorer took another deep breath. He felt the relief washing over him like a warm wave. The feeling of anxiety was fading, replaced by a feeling of calmness and peace. He felt lighter, happier, and more relaxed. The wobbly mushroom still looked a bit scary, but he wasn't as afraid anymore. He carefully climbed down, step by step, taking slow, deep breaths all the way.
When he reached the bottom, he felt incredibly relieved. The tight feeling in his chest was gone. He felt a wonderful sense of accomplishment – he had faced his fear and overcome it! He thanked the wise creature for helping him understand and manage his anxiety.
The wise creature smiled. "Remember, little one," it said, "anxiety is a feeling, not a monster. It’s okay to feel anxious sometimes. But with deep breaths, happy thoughts, and talking about your feelings, you can always smooth away the bumpy stone and find your calm, smooth stone again. That calm feeling is what we call relief.”
And from that day on, our little explorer continued his adventures, always remembering the wise creature's words and using deep breaths, happy thoughts, and talking to help him feel relieved when he felt anxious. He understood that feeling relieved meant that the tight, uncomfortable feeling in his chest had gone away, replaced by a sense of peace and calm. And he knew that he could always find his way back to that peaceful feeling, no matter how wobbly the mushroom might seem.